A sad fact is that scammers are always trying to find new ways to exploit people when they are most vulnerable. One method that is on the rise is through online dating sites. At a time when people are trying to find a companion, there are leeches out there devising online dating scams, targeting people trying to find love.
Your best defense against such activities is to be cautious with everyone you communicate with online. Do not be blinded by your feelings of loneliness or while finding a companion. Remember that not everyone is who they seem online and there are telltale things that you can be look out for.
If someone claims to be of a certain nationality, but the way the write does not seem to match, you should be suspicious. Be alert to basic grammar or language errors. Also, look out for changes in grammar styles from message to message, as scammers often work in teams.
Immediate responses to every message you send, regardless of the time should raise a red flag. It is nice to feel like someone is always there for you, but if it feels like it is too much, it probably is.
Beware of people who hardly seem to divulge any information about themselves. It may seem like they are trying to hide their identities, which is okay as anonymity is expected in internet dating. However, they could also be trying to avoid being caught. It can be hard to keep multiple stories straight between several people. Consistent vagueness should raise suspicion.
On its own, an extremely attractive person should not be a red flag. However, when combined with other potential indicators, it may be too good to be true. Models and sexy people do use online dating sites, but scammers know everyone wants an attractive companion.
Scams will almost always result in money being lost. A scammer can go about requesting money many ways. You should never give money to a person you do not know, period.
A basic and frequently used tactic when asking for money is to give you a sad story that about a sudden misfortune. A family tragedy or accident are stories commonly used. Then they will hit you with the punch line: they need some money and you are the only one who they can count on. They might make promises to pay you as soon as possible.
Sometimes they will not ask for money outright. They could ask you to cash a check for them and then wire it to them. To sweeten the deal, you could be asked to keep a fraction of the money, which also makes you a part of the fraud. Of course, they will be long gone when the check bounces.
If you give someone money, chances are that you will never see it again. Do not be a victim of online dating scams. Use common sense and avoid being hit in your wallet and in your heart.
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