2012年9月8日 星期六

4 Tips For Online Dating to Find Your Ideal Match!


Online dating has many advantages to it and also many disadvantages also but with the advance of technology and our plugged in life along with the changing landscape of dating in general many will enter this world but be under prepared. Tips for online dating are therefore an essential part of your journey of discovery into this new and rapidly changing area as without knowing what you are doing you could fall prey to scams, predators and also general disappointment and disillusionment with the entire process!

These 4 online dating tips can help you navigate the world of virtual dating so you can sift through the trash and find the treasure; your ideal match!

1. Write a unique Profile!

One problem that immediately turns potential dates away is a dull, boring or generic profile. Saying you are lots of fun, love good food and likes to laugh for instance is true for nearly everyone so why would anyone spend more than a cursory glance at something they have seen all too often. Instead focus on the things that make you interesting because this is a place where people can view hundreds of profiles in an evening sorting through looking for someone who matches what they want so you have to stand out!

Do not be shy because you are not going to be rejected in person if someone finds your hobbies odd they will just move on and instead the guy who really appreciates someone with a 19th century doll collection (or something!) will come along and like you for the reasons that make you unique. Be detailed but do not go on too long either.

2. You Picture Increases Your Dating Opportunities

Your profile picture is of vital importance to your online dating success. If you are stunningly good looking this may not be a problem and you will have a dozen great pictures but if you feel that you are ordinary or have problems with your appearance you still need to do this because there is one thing that ruins dates from dating sites and that is deception.

If you post a picture from when you were much younger or much thinner, what is the point when you meet up and your date discovers that you have effectively lied to them? Do not do this!

As has been mention the point of online dating is not to get a million dates that end poorly but to find a few very well matched dates so be honest to start with and post a recent and good picture of yourself ... if you do not have one go and get one from a professional that flatters you as long as it is you not a past you or someone different altogether. If you leave the picture out you cut your chances of getting dates and responses from people by over 50% from the statistics of the dating sites themselves.

3. Don't Be Shy

Being shy will get you nowhere in life and it is doubly so with finding dates online! The entire point of the process is to sift and sort and look for those that match your personality, interests and that you find attractive because a good dating site will have hundreds of people near you that you can meet with more coming online every day.

So get out there and flirt using emails, online "winks" or "kisses" that many sites have and get some interests and remember that there is no rejection in this as everyone is looking for a match not just a chance and you may just make some great friends if not lovers too!

4. Paid Dating Site of Free Dating site?

This is an important question people ask when dipping their toe into the online dating pool and it has merit for more than sheer monetary reasons. There are some free dating sites that may suit you if you are just experimenting but the problem with anything free is it attracts people who are not serious or committed about the entire process. If you are one of these people then by all means try a free dating site but do not be surprised by the lack of quality of such ventures from design or members (or both!).

Paid dating sites have the money to create and maintain very good sites with many features to help you find your match and most have now a free trial where you can do everything but your communication is limited so you can get a feel for the process and paying members can still contact you so you can see if it works. The quality of paying members as has been mentioned is higher because they are committed to using the site and finding dates.




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