Using Online Dating Tips For Men to Find Love

Alright so you've joined an online dating site. You've taken the time to fill in the blanks on your likes dislikes, what you like to do, hobbies, where you work, all that good stuff that tells what a great guy you are. You've posted a picture of your handsome smiling face. Who could resist that?

You see a button on all the ladies profiles that says send a flirt. You think that sounds easy and good. You push a button and it sends them a 1 line message. You don't even have to think of what to say. Shows interest in her. You go through and push the button on 5 or 6 profiles and sit back and wait. Nothing happens. You wonder why not?

The problem is that the girls you sent the flirt to are thinking that you're to lazy to really check out her profile. You didn't take the time to send her an email. You're not that interested. Not like the guys who did. Why should she bother checking you out.

Okay so you've figured out that sending flirts is a waste of time. You get what you pay for. There is a reason why you can send out all the flirts you want for free. You do your homework and read a few profiles find out what they say they like. You write up 10 emails and send them out. You wait for a response. You get absolutely nothing back. You start looking at your picture to see if maybe there's some warts on your face that you didn't notice before. Nothing there, so what's wrong?

The problem now is if she's halfway goodlooking and seems to have her stuff together she's receiving 50 to 200 emails a day. If your head line or subject on your email doesn't stand out from the crowd she is going to put it in the trash folder without even reading it. She doesn't have time to read that many emails every day. If you don't catch her attention she won't even open your email.

You need to have a proactive approach when you send emails out to women online. You need to find out what their interests are and try to connect them to something that you are interested in. You also need to keep sending out multiple emails as this will improve your odds of someone responding.

If you follow these tips you will improve your chances of getting a date with someone online. What you do after that is a subject for another article.

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