Dating Tips For Shy Guys - You Are in a Coffee Shop, a Gorgeous Woman Walks In, What Do You Do?

You're in this coffee shop when this beautiful woman walks in. You're in luck because she proceeds to stand right next to you in line. You watch her from the side of your eye as she gazes at the menu and... what's that?!

Did she actually look up and smile at you? You're dying to talk to her but your mind goes blank? Cat got your tongue? Here are a few things to remember when you're bitten by the shy bug:

1. If you don't make a move, someone else will.

Hey, all's fair play in love and dating. If you're not going to do take a shot with this lady, then move aside and let someone else have his try. Can't stand the thought of that? Then do something about it. Life is too short to waste it stalling.

2. She's probably just as shy as you are.

Intimidated? Afraid of being rejected? Chances are, so is she. Truth be told, women will usually think twice about making the first move on a man for fear that she might come across as desperate or too "forward." So, don't wait around for her to introduce herself. Who knows? She might just be waiting for you to strike up a conversation with her. Wouldn't it be just sad if you both liked each other all along but were too shy to figure it out?

3. "Hello" is a good place to start.

That said, saying "hello" is always a good start in opening communication lines with someone. Make sure you make eye contact and smile. Then, you can follow it up with a simple "how's your day so far?" or a more creative "what do you think of the coffee/food/art/(insert the appropriate topic) in this place?" The important thing is to start talking. As that famous movie line goes, "you got me at hello." Oh, and don't forget to introduce yourself at some point.

4. Work the Charm.

Believe it or not, a lot of women find shy guys really charming as opposed to over-confident ones who seem to think any girl would fall head-over-heels in love with them with one flash of a smile. Work that up to your advantage. There's a reason why women all over the world love Mr. Darcy and his fumbling proposal (if you haven't read or watched Pride and Prejudice, do so! It is crucial to your dating life!). Ladies like to feel that they have the power to make a man go weak in the knees and nervous because of their beauty. But, don't overdo it, of course! There's a thin line between complimenting someone and flattery.

5. Be honest.

The problem with shyness is that it can be easily misconstrued as snobbishness or disinterestedness (I will say it again: watch Pride and Prejudice!). "I've been wanting to talk to you but I was feeling a bit bashful" - straight and simple. It will help the object of your admiration understand your personality and encourage her to initiate conversation in the future.

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