Dating Gurus - Which One Suits You?

Have you ever been so dumbfounded about what to do in dating and relationships that you've decided to seek "professional help"? Have you tried to find your own love doctor? Have you succumbed to soliciting advice from dating gurus just to get you through the ever-complicated world of dating? If you have, well then experience should teach you that dating gurus - no matter how helpful they are - can be more of a burden than an assistance to you if you fail to identify which expert adviser is best suited to cater to your needs. So read on and keep these guidelines in mind when you approach the next date doctor.

Not every dating guru can be right for you.

There are many dating experts that will offer their services to you, usually for a fee. However, the world wide web offers a wide selection of dating advisers that make use of free media to offer advice and answer queries from men and women alike who continue to be confounded by the intricacies of love and relationships. While it is, of course, ideal for you to make full use of these free services, you have to keep in mind that these pieces of advice might not cut it for you. Why? Because how much can you really share on forums or perhaps email? Most likely, you will leave out pertinent information regarding your situation that could be useful for your dating guru when he or she generates an advice. These dating gurus will then base their words of wisdom for you based only on the little information that you have provided. And as a result, the advice given may not work.

Dating gurus can help you better if you're a match.

Women like to seek advice from fellow women---this is often an honest mistake among the gals. Women share the same line of thinking, more or less. So when it comes down to figuring out what goes on in the mind of a man, whom do you really go to? Not a woman. A man! So when you pick out a dating guru, try approaching a guy. Get the guy's point of view, for once. You have your best girl friends to tell you all the female pulse you need. What you actually need is a man's insight. Who better to tell you about what certain guy codes mean and how gestures should be interpreted than the guys themselves!

Dating gurus are people too.

Remember that dating gurus are not perfect. They are human beings also who can make mistakes. Don't rely too much on what they say. Consider their opinion and weigh your options. Do not make decisions based entirely on what a dating guru has told you to do. Because, ladies, at the end of the day---YOU are the one on the dating scene. You're the one who is spending time and making conversation and being intimate with your date, not your guru. Your dating guru shall only serve as a guide, more or less. He's there to teach you some tips and tricks, but he cannot control nor manipulate you into making decisions within the relationship itself. He can also be faulted for wrong pieces of advise or tips that turn out more to be harmful than helpful. But you can't put the blame on him entirely. You really have to make your own decisions and choices. Your guru is meant to lead the way, but not direct the events that will occur during your dates; neither can he proclaim a happy ending for your love story. He's only a guru, after all, not the god of love.

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This article is contributed by Alexandra Fox, a popular dating coach with a huge following. She has written many online books, including her bestselling ebook 77 Secrets of Love. Her newest program is: The Male Mind. You can find more about her by visiting her website.