Dating Tips For Shy Guys - You Are in a Coffee Shop, a Gorgeous Woman Walks In, What Do You Do?

You're in this coffee shop when this beautiful woman walks in. You're in luck because she proceeds to stand right next to you in line. You watch her from the side of your eye as she gazes at the menu and... what's that?!

Did she actually look up and smile at you? You're dying to talk to her but your mind goes blank? Cat got your tongue? Here are a few things to remember when you're bitten by the shy bug:

1. If you don't make a move, someone else will.

Hey, all's fair play in love and dating. If you're not going to do take a shot with this lady, then move aside and let someone else have his try. Can't stand the thought of that? Then do something about it. Life is too short to waste it stalling.

2. She's probably just as shy as you are.

Intimidated? Afraid of being rejected? Chances are, so is she. Truth be told, women will usually think twice about making the first move on a man for fear that she might come across as desperate or too "forward." So, don't wait around for her to introduce herself. Who knows? She might just be waiting for you to strike up a conversation with her. Wouldn't it be just sad if you both liked each other all along but were too shy to figure it out?

3. "Hello" is a good place to start.

That said, saying "hello" is always a good start in opening communication lines with someone. Make sure you make eye contact and smile. Then, you can follow it up with a simple "how's your day so far?" or a more creative "what do you think of the coffee/food/art/(insert the appropriate topic) in this place?" The important thing is to start talking. As that famous movie line goes, "you got me at hello." Oh, and don't forget to introduce yourself at some point.

4. Work the Charm.

Believe it or not, a lot of women find shy guys really charming as opposed to over-confident ones who seem to think any girl would fall head-over-heels in love with them with one flash of a smile. Work that up to your advantage. There's a reason why women all over the world love Mr. Darcy and his fumbling proposal (if you haven't read or watched Pride and Prejudice, do so! It is crucial to your dating life!). Ladies like to feel that they have the power to make a man go weak in the knees and nervous because of their beauty. But, don't overdo it, of course! There's a thin line between complimenting someone and flattery.

5. Be honest.

The problem with shyness is that it can be easily misconstrued as snobbishness or disinterestedness (I will say it again: watch Pride and Prejudice!). "I've been wanting to talk to you but I was feeling a bit bashful" - straight and simple. It will help the object of your admiration understand your personality and encourage her to initiate conversation in the future.

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How to Date the Woman of Your Dreams

Good day friend, my name is Lemar Bloom and am very happy that you took out time to read this article. Today I am going to share some rare and powerful dating tactics with you. I am going to show you why most people go through life without finding true happiness.

Let me ask you a question, why do you think that divorce rate is on the increase in our world today? The answer is not far-fetched. The truth is that divorce is on the rise simply because people hook up with opposite partners that seem available and not partners of their dreams.

For example, your dream girl might be your boss at the office but because she seem out of your reach, you give up your dream and happiness without even trying. The thing that you fail to realize is that you will never find true fulfillment in life on the long run if you fail to give your inner desire a medium of expression.

How do I go for the woman of my dreams and have unbelievable success without being rejected, I can almost hear thinking in your head? The answer to this question is: have a life! What do I mean by the phrase have a life? What I mean to say is that you do not have any reason desiring a woman when you do not have anything meaningful doing with your life.

If you are a guy who is lazy, jobless and purposeless, you can never attract the right woman. Even if you do by pretense it will not take long before you lose her to some other guy who have a life. So if you came here thinking that you will find some magic lines that you can use to get women like magnet attracts metal, I have bad news for you. you are on the wrong the page, you have wasted your time.

The first thing you must do if you are really serious about getting the right type of woman is to have some thing interesting doing. YES! You must have a job. You must have a focus for your life and you must be purposeful. A man is born to be a leader, as a man, always remember you were created to be a leader. A leader is someone that gives direction to the people he is leading.

But if as a leader, you do not have a life, how are you going to lead those you are supposed to lead. Today, our society is in a mess because the men failed to take their position as leaders. There is no clear cut direction for the people to follow.

I did not write this article for guys who just want to play around. I intended it for men who actually care about women and wants to learn the best and fastest ways to get the one they truly like and not the one that is simply available.

One of the reasons why you must have something doing with your life is because it gives you dignity. It makes you feel special. And women love a man who is busy doing something passionate with his life. Secondly, a woman is enough liability for a man to carry. So, if you are a liability to yourself then learning to attract a woman is only calling for double trouble.

Finally, I did not unnecessary want to make this article a long one. So my dear friend, give yourself a life, find something meaningful to do. Make sure you can feed,cloth and accommodate yourself first before thinking of attracting women. I know you were not expecting me to say all this. But if I do not tell you this then I am only deceiving you. Hope we are still friends?

Cheers

Lemar Bloom

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Winning a Woman Over With Pick Up Lines and More

When you have an interest in a woman, you want to try just about anything to get her attention. One of the first things that will probably occur to you is trying to find pick up lines that work. After all, if just one sentence can get you what you want, that will save you a lot of aggravation. While pick up lines do sometimes work, most women roll their eyes at this sort of attempt, especially if it's just a generic line.

You might have better luck with something more personalized; for instance, if you know what her favorite movie is - a little social media research could help in this regard - you could quote something romantic from that movie. Of course, this is best attempted if you've actually talked to each other a bit in the past. Otherwise, you could come across as rather creepy.

While spouting bon mots like Cyrano de Bergerac might seem like a good idea, you really don't have to worry so much about being witty. What's really important is to be yourself. If you're presenting yourself as something you're not, eventually, the woman is going to figure it out, and if she fell for a character you were playing, that doesn't bode well for your relationship. You want to have a girlfriend who will appreciate you for who you are.

You also shouldn't come across as too desperate. Before you try to pick someone up, you should feel confident in who you are and be able to think of yourself as a prize. Don't project the idea that you need this woman in your life or it will be meaningless. Most women find that rather pathetic and are also intimidated by the pressure that comes with being the center of someone's world.

If just making that first contact is almost impossible for you, ease yourself into situations that will allow you to feel more comfortable about women. For instance, every time you go out into a public situation, make an effort to say hello to at least one woman. All you have to do is issue a friendly greeting, and gradually, it will get to feel more natural. If one of the women strikes up a conversation with you, so much the better.

Another way that you can interact with women if you are very shy is to go online. You don't even need to join a dating site; you can go through a site like Facebook and talk to girls you already know on instant messenger or browse for new acquaintances. Do you have a favorite TV show? Go to its official fan page and consider striking up an online friendship with one of the female fans you see there.

Instead of focusing on pick up lines that work, try to think about ways that you would relate to her in a sustained relationship. Pay close attention when she is talking so that you can say things to her that show her you've been listening. Women love to feel that their opinions are valued. Depending on the situation, you might also try for a little physical contact, though this should always be subtle enough that she doesn't feel strong-armed. If she feels under pressure, chances are good that she will bolt, especially if she barely knows you.

Don't interrogate her, but if you can get a feel for some mutual interests you might have, that can give you a great springboard for conversation and future date ideas. Just have fun with it and try not to worry too much. If she's not receptive, she's just not the one for you.

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Loving a Woman - Can It Ever Be "Wrong" To Be In Love With a Woman?

When you read through a lot of the modern take on dating advice that is given out to men, you can easily walk away wondering if it is 'manly' to fall in love with a woman. So much of it seems to be focused on playing games, trying to get a woman into bed, and all that can make you kind of feel like it is "wrong" to fall in love and to want a real relationship.

Just because there is so much of that kind of advice going around, it does not mean that you have to become someone you are not. One of the major objections that I have seen men make about a lot of the more modern dating advice, especially when it deals with routines, is that it seems so fake. And I can totally understand that. There's nothing wrong at all with wanting the "real thing" or wanting to have a relationship instead of a bunch of flings.

That does not mean that you cannot still get some really good tips and pointers from pick up or dating advice. I mean, if you look at it this way, when you have the right skills to attract any woman you want... the chances that you DO find the right woman and fall in love will go way up, right?

It's all in how you use that advice.

I know some guys who take on advice about how to pick up women and all they want from it is to know how to get laid. At the same time, I have known guys who have learned the same skills, and the same strategies and found that they ended up with a woman they could totally commit to, the kind of woman that they could have a lasting relationship and a healthy sex life.

Besides, you really don't have to follow any routines or lines if that is not your thing. Just as many guys, if not more, do quite well without all of those tricks and those gimmicks. The real secret is not to learn how to use some routine, it's in learning how to communicate attraction with a woman so that she wants to date you, and eventually that can always turn to love if that is how things play out.

So, is it ever wrong to fall in love?

For the most part I would say no, not at all. The exception would be if you are in love with a woman who does not feel that way, and you have no clue on how to make her feel that way. In that case, then falling in love with her and staying with those feelings will actually do more harm to you than good. And then of course, there is also the obvious case of falling in love with a woman who is already with someone in a marriage or a relationship.

If you think about it, the ultimate pick up and seduction IS to make a woman feel like she has fallen for you and like she wants to have a committed relationship. That definitely takes more skill than putting on a game face for the night and having a fling, although there is also something to be said for those as well.

Most modern dating advice tends to take on that spin of being all about picking up women, and some of it is good and effective and some it is totally lame and ineffective. What matters most is that you learn what attracts a woman, how to make her feel certain emotions, and make her see you as the kind of guy she wants to be with.

When you can do that, then it REALLY is up to YOU where the whole thing goes.

And the best part about that is... most men will never have that option, that luxury to choose where the relationship goes. They are at the mercy and the whims of the woman, not themselves.

A major caveat to all of this is to try and not fall for the first woman you pick up or attract. That usually does not turn out the way that you would hope it would. But, overall, there really is nothing wrong with loving a woman and falling for her. As long as you are not in the usual position of just 'hoping' that she feels the same way and bending over backwards to try and persuade her to feel that way about you.

When you have the right skills you can discover how to pick up women for a fling or for a long term relationship, it is up to YOU...

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