How to Impress Your Date - Surefire Ways to Impress Your Date Without Trying Too Hard

Going on a date is often nerve-wracking. On top of getting dressed and finding a good place to go to, there's always the nagging thought that you might not do enough to impress your date. To help you start on the right foot, here are some dating tips on how to impress your date. Use these tips to leave a good impression:

How to impress your date? Just relax. It can be a bit endearing for your date to see you a little flustered and nervous but awkwardness has a very short shelf life. Instead, take a deep breath and calm down. It's just a date - really. It's not going to impact how your life will turn out and it shouldn't.

Have fun and don't expect too much. This will eliminate any unnecessary pressure on you both and make you look cool.

Another way to learn how to impress your date is find out what your date likes. Imagine how disastrous your day or evening would be if you took your date to an Indian restaurant only to find out they dislike spicy food or may be even allergic to it. Try to learn what your date is interested in and consider what you yourself like. Then, work out a compromise so you end up being in one place you will both enjoy.

Listen, and listen well. This is not just about how to impress your date but a date is your chance to get to know someone special. You can't do this if your attention is someplace else. Try to avoid distractions by turning off your cell phone (or at least the ringer) and focusing on your date. When they talk, listen attentively and don't interrupt. It's not only rude; it also shows you're not really interested in what they have to say.

Hold back on too much information. Does your date really have to know why you got fired from your last job? Do you have to tell your date about that boil the size of a cherry tomato that you got operated on last week? Or do you absolutely have to tell that story of how you got drunk in Mexico and attempted to bull-fight a sheep? Guess not. Certainly, these things are not included on how to impress your date.

Another sure way on how to impress your date is make dinner. If you're a mean cook, volunteer to host dinner for two. A full-course dinner shows that you put a lot of thought into your date and that you have a useful skill. Plan your dinner from the appetizer to dessert and show off your specialty dish. Just make sure to watch out for any food allergies your date might have or if he's vegetarian, you better not serve meat.

Another way on how to impress your date is to avoid the basics. Ask any man or woman what his or her idea of a date is and you'll probably get the standard answer: movie, dinner and coffee. If you want to learn how to impress your date, find other ways to do and places to go to. Go on a hot air balloon ride or horseback riding or if your date loves art, go to an exhibit by an artist he or she admires. Drive your date to a winery and participate in wine tasting or arrange to have a private tour of a museum or historical place.

Chivalry isn't dead and it shouldn't die with you. Having good manners is a major plus on how to impress a date. If you're taking your date to a fancy restaurant, at least know how things are done in there. Practice good etiquette, open the door for a woman, and don't yell at the waiter. For women, don't attempt to emasculate the man and for men, don't make the woman feel incapable. It's a fine line you have to walk on but just remember... good manners never hurt anyone and you would do well to show you're evolved. Politeness is certainly one way on how to impress your date.

Lastly, but not the least on how to impress your date is be yourself. Nothing leaves a bad impression more than you pretending to be someone you're not. If you can't sing, don't. If you can't dance, don't insist to show your date some moves. Don't make up stories just to make your date go 'wow'. If they discover you fibbed about some details, their first good impression of you isn't bound to last.

Dating should not be that stressful. For men, do you really, really want to learn how to impress your date easily? Did you know that you can win any woman?s heart through the power of humor? Make women laugh and fall in love. Discover how to make any woman burst out laughing in 2 minutes and any babe fall in love in 2 hours visit Make Women Laugh And Fall In Love

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Meeting Women: Surefire Spots To Get Dates

The first thing I want to do immediately is to give you a

CONCRETE, STEP BY STEP PLAN that you can immediately use to go out right now and start meeting more women.

Now, most guys have it all wrong when it comes to meeting women.. Let me clear up the confusion with 2 "Wisdom Nuggets":

WISDOM NUGGET #1: Most normal guys UNDER-ESTIMATE

how many women they need to SEE and MEET in order

to develop their approach skills. And it doesn't

matter if your goal is to find that one perfect

woman. In order to meet her when you finally

have a chance, you need good approach skills.

WISDOM NUGGET #2: If you're not SEEING women (if

they don't come into your field of vision), then

you're not MEETING women. So this is a critical

first step. The more women you see, the more

opportunities you'll have to develop and refine

your approach skills, get dates, etc.

The first step to seeing and meeting more women is

going where there are plenty of them. Duh.

So I'm going to give you 3 of my favorite places

to meet women:

1) SHOPPING MALLS

Ah, shopping malls. Such a terrible place to meet

women. I mean, look around, there's only like 9

or 10 women for every 1 man walking around the

place. Lol ...

Yes, there are tons of hot women working AND

shopping there.

Women flock to shopping malls like plastic

surgeons flock to Michael Jackson's mansion.

2) RESTAURANTS

The idea with restaurants is that if you're going

to eat out you might as well do it in a "Target

Rich Environment" (a place with lots of women).

You can turn just your average lunch into an

opportunity to walk home with several numbers of

interesting females.

And if you look around you will start to find many

restaurants in your area that consistently have

quite a few women eating (and working) there.

Larger restaurants obviously have more people and

so more women than smaller ones, so eat there.

And when you're being seated by the hostess, see

if she can seat you in a place where you can have

a good view of the female traffic going in and

out, so when a woman that interests you enters

you'll have easy access to do your approach.

So far nothing new, right? Pretty common sense.

Well here's something I bet you don't normally do:

Find a restaurant where there's a lot of walking

traffic RIGHT OUTSIDE. Grab a table where you

can see all these people walking by. If there's a

patio, that's perfect.

When you see a hottie walk by, leave your food and

approach her.

This is quite a ROMANTIC move, because you can

HONESTLY say,

"Excuse me. Hi. I don't know exactly how to say

this, but I was right in the middle of my lunch,

and I saw you walking and had to tell you you are

absolutely ... beautiful."

What this does is it puts you in a position where

1) you are being 100% HONEST when you say this

(so it's not a "line") and

2) it's a NATURALLY ROMANTIC move to make.

(By the way, if you combine these first 2 places

to meet women what you get is: restaurants in

shopping malls where you can see the foot traffic

walk by. Excellent.)

3) CONCERTS, FAIRS, AND OTHER COMMUNITY EVENTS

These are all great places to meet women because

every woman there is out to have a good time.

They're not in a rush to get to work or some

other place, so it's not like you're approach is

interrupting them from anything important.

This makes it just that much easier for them to

be open to having a random conversation with a

guy who has his act together.

(Oh, by the way, that guy is YOU in case you

haven't figured it out yet).

***TIMING IS CRITICAL***

You visit your favorite restaurant on Tuesday at

lunch. But because it's not crowded at that time,

there's not even a single hottie. The same

restaurant on Friday evenings at 7 pm is full of

pretty women.

You go to the mall at 6 pm on a Tuesday and it's a

desert. That same mall at 2 pm on a Saturday is an

oasis full of hot women.

So if you visit a Target Rich Environment but

there's not many beautiful women there, ask

yourself if your timing is off.

Here's a secret: Ask people who would know when

the most crowded time is. At a shopping mall,

restaurant, or grocery store you could ask any of

the employees. They would know. Just ask them,

"When is this place the busiest, anyways?"

Or to save even more time, you can always CALL

AHEAD to a new place you want to check out, and

ask someone over the phone when's the busiest

time. You'll be surprised how much info some

people will give you.

Now, some of you are thinking, "Man, I already

know this stuff."

Maybe you do.

But are you DOING it?

Here's an easy way to tell:

Have you approached 5 or more women in the last 7

days?

Seriously. Think about it.

Have you?

If not, then although you "know" this stuff,

you're not DOING it.

That's the trap that most "normal" guys fall into.

They sit back and criticize, but if you look at

what they're DOING it's clear they're not taking

enough ACTION to ever get their skills to a level

where they'll have the success with women they're

looking for.

A success that some of you right now believe is

impossible ...

Well, it's not impossible ... IF YOU DO THE WORK.

So, here's your HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT:

Go out in the next 48 hours and visit at least 2

Target Rich Environments. Could be a mall. Could

be a restaurant. Could be another place you

thought of on your own where there's likely to be

ladies present.

And all I want you to do is 1 thing:

1) COUNT how many pretty women you see in the next

48 hours. This includes those you see at the

Target Rich Environments AND any other women you

see anywhere, like on the street, in stores,

supermarkets, wherever.

So 48 hours from now, if you're Bill from Illinois,

Gary from Australia, or whoever from wherever,

you'll be able to say, "Kev, I was able to see 17

hot women in the last 48 hours" or whatever number

it may be.

It'll be a little competition ... WHO CAN SEE THE

MOST HOT WOMEN IN THE NEXT 48 HOURS ...

So do yourself a favor and do your homework.

It's basically checking out pretty women ... how

much better can a homework assignment get???!!!

Your Dating Coach,

Kevin B.

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In it you'll also find specifically what to say to women (and how to say it) when you visit these places so you come across as a mature guy who has his act together, rather than a nervous wuss or a creep or a guy who's just trying too hard.

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It's a great introduction to the principles I teach...you can be reading it in just 3 minutes from right now.

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