There are guys that like nothing more than playing games with women as it gives them a sense of A POWER which feeds an ego often as big as a ball park.
They have the gift of the gab and know all the moves necessary to get their latest quest between the sheets of their much-used king-size bed.
This is the M.O of the classic player who has no interest in a deep and meaningful relationship, which he considers, would tie him down like a shipwrecked anchor crashing on the rocks. He is also highly allergic to the sound of words like love, commitment and worst of all marriage.
In days gone by he was referred to as a playboy because his goal in life was to bed as many women as possible. He was considered a lovable rogue whose only crime was to seduce unsuspecting women who thought there was more to this philanderer than a one-night stand.
If you are selected to join his ever-growing harem of delectable women you will notice his home will possess many mirrors as he has a unique fascination with himself. This should be an early warning sign to most women but the girl who has succumbed to his well-rehearsed charm will put this down to the fact that he takes pride in his appearance. This would be a fair comment, as a man who looks sharp often has no problem wooing the discerning woman.
As he farewells his latest conquest the next morning he secretly smiles in the knowledge that the call he promised to make to her later in the day will never happen. In fact he will probably set his alarm for that time so he can enjoy the moment he caught another helpless fish on his line of sacrificial women.
Another aspect of the modern-day player is his ability to elaborate on the truth. He will basically tell a girl exactly what she wants to hear with no regard for her feelings, as his is generally self-absorbed and narcissistic.
On a date with this emotionally inhibited man you will find he loves talking about himself and all his embellished achievements. He is also capable of being very pushy (borderline aggressive) as he continually drops hints like: "Do you live alone? Or it's getting late why don't we have a coffee at your house?
A woman who is aware of the players ingenious but insincere repertoire will see through his facade very quickly and if she is not interested in what is on offer will find a way to exit the date before he even has time to blink.
In order for a woman to master this masculine game of chess she will need to know a thing or two about this man's clever but insidious style of getting his girl.
In a little black notebook for future reference a woman should take down the following notes.
1 A player loves the thrill of the chase and where it leads (remember that king-size bed) so be aware a date with him is not going to lead tan engagement or marriage.
2. POWER (over women) and a feeling of Superiority is what he gains from his wandering ways, which immediately puts him in the spotlight as a guy with issues.
3. He will always look and smell good thanks to the latest European fashion and cologne which is not always the way to determine his agenda where you are concerned but it is an indicator that he means business.
4. He will talk about himself with a passion and pretend to be vaguely interested in your thoughts and views depending on whether you are able to get a word in or not.
5. He will be emotionally unavailable (eum) commitment phobic and SHALLOW!
A woman who is on a date with this charismatic chameleon will need to have her wits about her. She will need to possess an abundance of self-esteem and know exactly what she wants. Her player radar (playdar) will need to be on high alert and if she knows her stuff she will be onto this romance impostor within minutes of meeting him.
Rebuffed or not in true cave-man style the prolific player will drag his next victim to his well-prepared LAIR (soft lighting and music) where he will take out his dinosaur slaying knife and with great artistry carve another notch in his most prized possession. His bed.
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