Many of us Baby Boomers that are setting out in to the big wide world of dating again can feel a little anxious. There really isn't a lot of cause to be so anxious, however, as we are certainly in good company. Nowadays there are many Baby Boomer's who have found themselves in the same position. Divorce and separation is nothing new and so we are looking at new ways to find love. If this is you then you should be aware of some etiquette that exists nowadays when it comes to dating other Baby Boomers.
You should first understand that you are not alone in feeling a little anxious over the whole idea of dating all over again. I don't think I have met a single Baby Boomer that has told me they are not a little anxious about dating again. You see the last time they actually did this they were around 20 years younger, and the rules as well as the aim was different then compared to what it is now for them. The great thing about looking for love as a Baby Boomer is that you are able to find it with a large group of like minded individuals with similar generational values and also life experiences as you.
The next thing to remember when you are looking for love is that if you are looking fore it with other similar aged individuals then you are going to be wanting very similar things out of a relationship. What I mean by this is that when we were 20 years younger and looking for a potential partner in dating our requirements were far different than what they are today. No longer are we trying to find a suitable mother or father for your children, or in a good job that will support our relationship. We are through with the growth stage of our lives and now we are wanting someone who is able to compliment where we are in life and share with us where we are at mentally and physically.
There is absolutely no way that you should even attempt to compete with a 20 something in the world of dating as there is truly nothing less attractive about someone that is not happy with who truly are. In fact I am told almost daily by the Baby Boomers that I help that there is little else that they find sexy than a man or woman who is comfortable with who they really are and can highlight their good points regardless if the waist measurements, hair line or frown lines that a lifetime of living has given them. Sometimes I truly think that we need a bit of a pick me up when it comes to getting a little more courage and confidence before setting out on a dating "expedition". This is why I have listed my favorite source below. Wont you take a look at it?
Piper S. McKenzie is a Dating Expert and Mentor. Piper has been writing about dating strategies and success for over a decade, and has personally helped dozens of couples meet and find their own unique happiness in the world.
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