Today the dating world has changed quite considerably than in the last 40 or 50 years. Back then the potential singles that were looking for love would have all been in their teens or early twenties. There would never have been the demographic that the dating world consists of nowadays. If we are to take a slice out of the typical day of being single all over the world, you would find that there is a completely new element that has been added to the mix. No longer are there singles aged below 25 that make up the dominant seekers of love, there is also a healthy chunk of over 50's in there today as well.
Baby Boomers are looking for love just as seriously as their younger counterparts. The only difference is that the younger ones are looking for someone to love and support them, financially as well as emotionally. They need to have the potential for having children and raising them comfortably enough through a decent job. Perhaps they are looking more for someone that can share themselves financially, mentally, emotionally and looks the goods while doing so. This is a different set of criteria for the Baby Boomers and a big part of me prefers that group.
Baby Boomers are not looking for someone that has only a good income and can provide and support their children as they grow, perhaps hoping to put their kids through college later in life. They aren't looking for someone that is good looking first and foremost and then trying to make a mental connection with them later. Baby Boomers are in the wonderful predicament of having been through all of that already, and are now more interested in substance rather than anything else.
The great thing about getting into the dating game if you are over 50 is that you are meeting other s who have been exactly where you have mentally and no doubt emotionally and are ready to try the next phase of their life. They aren't concerned about all of the "setting up" stage of their lives, they are now into the "relax and enjoy" phase. When looking for a potential partner as a Baby Boomer we look firstly at the mental connection we can make with someone. The receding hairline is no longer the first thing we notice on a mate, now is the fact that perhaps there are a few laugh lines around the face that tell of a happy past. IN fact, these things that those in their 20's may find a put off are actually very appealing to a Baby Boomer.
I love to usher my Baby Boomer friends to a guide that I believe can help them tremendously in trying to find love this time around. It is straight froward and has some great tools and tips that can help you get to who you are wanting to meet without out the hassle. I encourage you to take a look at the link I have for you below.
Piper S. McKenzie is a Dating Expert and Mentor. Piper has been writing about dating strategies and success for over a decade, and has personally helped dozens of couples meet and find their own unique happiness in the world.
Uncover how to find love as a Baby Boomer at our Make A Conversation Connection site at www.reviewsandbonuscentral.com/Winning_relationships.
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