Prince Charming Date Secrets Learned From A Vagrant

Having good date ideas and strategies are CRUCIAL to having a the love life you want. If you don't, you will be constantly spinning your wheels with women, sparking their interest, and then getting rejected just as soon as you start to like them...

And that's a terrible way to lose a girl.

The whole purpose of a date is for a woman to get to know you, and see what you are like in your world, so that she builds a connection with you, and feels comfort with you.

Lots of fun and emotional stimulation perhaps even temptation and anticipation are excellent bonuses. She is not looking to be impressed by you. She's not looking to take you out on a tour of her life either... Summed up in one sentence, when you take a woman is looking to tell "at home in your world."

In that sense, someone who is homeless on the streets would have a lot to he could teach the average guy in terms of dating. I'm NOT saying be weird...or be smelly...

I AM saying, that someone who lives on the streets would be very "at home" in them. I'm sure if you took the time to talk to a homeless person, they would have all sorts of interesting little idiosyncrasies that they know about the little nooks and crannies around town.

They would know fascinating little facts and stories about their environment...

Think Aladdin...

He knew all the little romantic dirt spots of his city Agrabar, do you think this helped his ability to date Princess Jasmine? In your case, what you want to do is learn more about your environment. Find out the cool hot spots that are interesting, or cozy.

On a date your mission is literally to show her, "A whole new world," and "a new fantastic point of view..." If you can share the cool stories of the "secret locations" in your environment, this is fascinating.

Beyond that, as you show her what your world looks like, you will automatically be able to take the position of "leader" on the date. This is exactly the position you want to be in. A woman is subtly watching to see how well you can lead her on the first date.

If you do a good job, then she will trust you more as a man.

This is good.

Even beyond that, if you take a woman on a cool journey, there is an element of adventure. This is ALWAYS a good thing in terms of dating success. There was a study done at the University of Western, in Ontario a few years ago which determined that the #1 determinant for men who had the most sex with women, was an element of adventure.

On the date itself, show her what you find very amusing, fun, and adventurous. Show her how you "play". If you don't know how to do that, then that's probably what you need to learn. There's no cover up for being a boring person who doesn't know how to have fun.

Here's a 3D example of what a good date might look like:

Don't just do something fun that you like to do. Line up 3 or four really fun things. Always start light, like you can meet for casual chatting with friends, but then you can bounce to another location...maybe you like playing basketball? An impromptu game would rock! And then if you break a little sweat, and you know where to get the BEST bubble tea in town...that would work...and after ALL that...you could listen to a great local band that you love at a bar...or go sing karaoke...

Mix and match... but the point is, line up 3 things that you LOVE doing, and take her on an adventure.

Logan Parker consults guys one on one and helps them build a large social circle, make more friends, and date more women. Learn more about charming date secrets at http://www.TheCollegeCupids.com.